Are you facing off with a bully who is attacking either you or someone you love?
It helps to understand the dynamics of bullying, but rest assured, pure jealousy is often the trigger for this bad behaviour.
Jealousy is not the only cause of bullying, but nine times out of 10, it is.
“You can’t fix jealousy,” says a friend of ours who is a high school counsellor. We’ll call her Anna.
“If someone hates the fact that you are a cheerleader or the owner of a new car, it doesn’t help to try to fix this. You can’t,” Anna points out. “But, you can stop trying to bend yourself out of shape, trying to make the bully like you.